Don't Neglect The Sex

Men love lingerie.  I don't care how long you have been together and how boring your sex life has become.  If you show up in this... he will feel like he is seeing you again for the first time.  Men go to strip bars because they love lingerie and women who are comfortable being sexy.  Keep your guy at home and give him a lap dance he will never forget.

I don't recommend this until you are committed to each other.  If you are looking this hot, he should have to earn it.