It is not your job to fix his problems. If he asks you for advice, give the best advice you see fit and move on. If he keeps complaining to you about his troubles, draw a line with how much time you will spend on it. You have your own problems to sort out (See "Be Happy" below). You are not his psycologist. If a man knows he can keep dumping his sorrows on you, he will. Eventually HE will feel better and you will be stuck trying to sort it all out for him. Your energy is for YOU. Be sweet, be helpful, but don't let it drag out. You need a man who is strong and can handle his own emotions. Don't be his mom. That makes him your son.... And no one wants to have sex with their kid.
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