Change it up

Keep your relationship fresh by flipping the switch every so often.  If you feel you have been too needy, become aloof.  If you feel you have been neglectful, give your mate an unsolicited massage.  Too much of even a good thing is exactly that...too much.  Familiarity breeds contempt and there's nothing better than a good ol' rut to kill the sex life.  Even being too nice, too supportive, and too available becomes annoying after a while.  Change it up, be self-focused, join a gym, pick up a new hobby or spend more time with your friends.  A relationship can turn stale at any time.  The good news is, flipping the script makes it fresh and interesting almost immediately.  Be aware.  If you are bored your mate is too.