An ending is a new beginning

When you've combined your life with another person, breaking up can get sticky.  You may have pets in common, property, friends...dividing up the stuff can be a headache.  It's not going to be easy.  Change is hard. Its the end of your old and familiar life.  It can be filled with feelings of sorrow and fear about the future.
Change your perspective.  See your life beyond the messy move out.  Picture yourself in a beautiful place of your own, happy, independent.  Think of all the things you can do now that you are free.  Visualize yourself joyful and succeeding.  You are now beyond the boundaries and there is no limit to what you can do.  Packing your things will suddenly seem a small price to pay for the new beginning you now look forward to. Focus on the outcome and trust yourself.