Is He A Fixer Upper?

Changing people is impossible.  Of course people change, but only on their own accord. They change when they have learned a lesson,  or been inspired to be more like someone they admire.  I have witnessed countless women stay in pointless relationships waiting for the day he suddenly changes into the romantic, sensitive, generous boyfriend she so desperately wants.  Don't let your youth pass you by trying to get a hero out of your zero. If he doesn't want to change, he won't.  Nagging, begging, praying...these things are a waste of your energy.  If his love for you inspires him to want to be better, he will show willingness and ask you what you need from him.  If you don't have a willing guy, you don't have a changeable guy.

Time's a tickin', girl.  If your man's not working for you, I promise the guy you wish he was already exists and is out there.  Save yourself the aggravation.  Why do an overhaul on a fixer-upper when you can have the finished version?