Who's Your Daddy?

Single and having a baby?  Need to choose a dad?  That's tricky.  It might seem fun to have your best gay be the dad but he probably parties a lot.  A baby is a lifetime commitment and the dad will always be there.  Taking everything into consideration is key.  A sperm bank will give you many details about the looks and genetics of the dad's sperm.  If you want to do it solo this is a good way to choose DNA. If you are looking for a hands-on dad, you must be choosey.  Religion, family, and lifestyle is everything.  You will never argue as much as you will fighting for the future of your child.  The downside is, you only really know this after the baby arrives.  Women go into crazy protective mode when they see the baby for the first time.  If you have enough insight to know this in advance you are golden.  Choose a dad that has the same outlook on life as you, the same ideals, the same path.  Also choose a guy that is responsible.  If he's flakey with you, no go... If he has a pet, pay attention to how he treats it, this is a good indicator of his nurturing qualities. Never have a baby with a guy who doesn't want one... he will never be there...and you don't have time to chase him when you are changing diapers.