Sunday, November 28, 2010

Only you can make you happy

If you rely on a mate to bring you happiness, you will always be disappointed.  Your happiness relies upon you.  Don't give a man the power to dictate your mood.  Decide to be happy no matter what.  Once you put the power in his hands, you are setting yourself up to lose control of your well-being.  If he is unhappy, that's his problem.  His journey is seperate from yours.  If he is unhappy with you, that's not your problem either.  You are you and you deserve to be accepted.  A relationship only works if both parties are whole.  You are not the "other half" of anyone.  When you can grasp this concept, no man can ever make you feel bad again.  He can not make you feel pretty or smart.  You KNOW you are.  If he can't see it, someone else will.

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